Double Nn 1. Everything is a Disney Movie
Many women view relationships like a Disney movie. When a women finds an interesting man, their eyes transform him into Prince Charming. Their hearts are blinded by their eyes. They think that Prince Charming has come to sweep them off their feet like Cinderella because they are just that special.
Even though most women have nothing to bring to the table other than their money, bodies, and attitude, they truly believe that they are deserving of the Cinderella treatment. They are convinced that their relationship with this magical man they just met or hit up on Instagram will be a mystical, romantic adventure with no disagreement. They will be happy forever and ever after. If he dares to do anything other than make her happy, he is a controlling misogynist that must be blasted on social media and now “all men ain’t sh**.”
This attitude towards relationships is very unrealistic. Disney, television dramas, and romance movies have poisoned the minds of young women. Not only that, social media has created a fairy tale-like image of relationships to where people now think that if their relationship is not like their favorite YouTube couple or Instagramer, then there must be something wrong with their relationship. And, if their romance life does not reflect a fictional reality of everlasting joy and excitement they give up on their relationship and breakup when in reality there was nothing actually wrong with the relationship to begin with. As a result, when women enter into relationships they make a number of different avoidable mistakes.
2. Women Think Any Man Who Gives Them Attention is “The One”
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Most women are flattered by a compliment and a little flirtation. All a guy needs is for a woman to entertain his efforts, and they are bound to exchange numbers. Then after a conversation or two, they have a date. Next, a guy has to dress somewhat decent and pay for the meal. Maybe he also has a nice ride and talks low with a little mumble. He tells stories about a lifestyle the woman is not 100% familiar with. He has an exciting past full of twists and turns. He is cool and has a bad boy side to him. He has an edge.
However, what about his job? What about his goals? Where does he live, and who does he live with? Where is his walk with God? Do he even believe in the Bible? It does not matter. He is cool with a dark undertone like Edward from Twilight. It does not matter that he is a vampire to your light and purity. It does not matter that ultimately he will take what he wants from you and leave you dry. It is all about how a woman feels at this moment right now. She is blindsided by a thrilling drama that could be her life. All she has to do is get with this guy that otherwise has no decent qualities. He just has to spit game and squint his eyes a little bit, and she is down for a moment of fun.
He fills her head with lies. He has a drinking problem? He says he’s going to stop. He has a smoking problem? He says he’s going to stop. He has other girls in his phone? He says he’s going to stop, and what does it take for a woman to believe him? He says she’s the one. She’s the only one he sees. He might even throw in that she’s his wife with no papers or real efforts to solidify it. It’s all empty words to keep getting in her pants. Sadly, even after repeated demonstrations that he’s lying and does not plan on improving, she still stays and hopes that things will change. She stands by her fake Prince Charming even though he has never shown any characteristics of a good man. This is all because she got drunk off his game. She has to keep chasing the high from her imagined teenage drama fictional romance story.
3. Women Act in the Moment and Not the Future
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Since women believe that the man they met only a few days, weeks, or months ago is the one, they give it up easily. There is an epidemic of not waiting long enough. To make matters worst, society promotes and put women on a pedestal who have sex whenever, however, and with whomever. There is no repercussions for these empty, lust-filled actions because there’s birth control, condoms, IUDs, abortions, and other methods to prevent or terminate pregnancy and STDs. Therefore women do not have to be concerned about any consequence of having sex according to this world. That is until they have created a soul tie or get a large number of bodies.
Women are no longer being taught the fact that gathering bodies lowers their chances of being married or having a successful marriage. A women’s private part molds to the man they first have sex with. That means that sex is most optimal with a woman’s first partner because anyone who follows will not be a perfect fit. Not to mention the possibility of developing a soul tie because each woman was created for the man they are with. Inevitably, there will always be a connection to the men you have sex with. Even after all of the crazy things that a man may have put you through, you will still have lingering feelings because you bounded your soul to him. That is one meaning of becoming one.
Furthermore, not only do you receive the physical body part from the man, you also receive any negative spirits and hang ups that man may be carrying around. This is why you see many women change when they start having sex. They are unifying with their sexual partner whether or not it is serious or just for fun. This is why you should wait until you have spent time with someone and have learned their good and bad sides through a courtship without sex. This way you can make accurate judgements and decide whether or not you would want his spirit to be a part of yours. However, this society teaches women to enjoy their lives in the now and not worry too much about the future to come.
The Bottom Line
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In the end, women have been deceived by both media and conceptions of society to live a fictional reality and have unrealistic expectations for relationships. This causes not only for women to choose ill-equipped partners, but also to devalue themselves quickly by having sex too early in the name of living in the moment. Women commit the ultimate act of submission with unworthy men without realizing that most high-valued men do not want to marry women who have previous sex partners. When men get higher in the ranks, they have more choices. Why would they chose a woman who has already taken in another man.
Ultimately, women are living a lie and have convinced themselves that it is empowerment to have sex freely. Women are actually debasing themselves and lowering the chance of marrying a quality man whenever they finally realize they are getting too old and want to settle down.
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